Welcome to: The Gay Monogamy Coach.
As an ICF-accredited life coach and CBT Practitioner, I help professional men cultivate self-love and build the fulfilling monogamous relationship they desire.
These personalised coaching sessions are designed to empower and support them in reaching their end goal - a monogamous and committed partnership.
'Working with Alan literally changed my life. After years of failed relationships or brief hook ups, I finally understood what was holding me back. Alan's guidance helped me gain confidence, conquer that negative voice that criticised me all the time, and break old patterns of behaviour that were holding me back. Through working on myself I ended up attracting the kind of committed, loving relationship I had always wanted. I am now in that monogamous relationship, have a loving partner and even gained a second family.
I don't think I could have done it without Alan's help.'
(Jamie, Lawyer, 47).
It was a pleasure working with Jamie and seeing the changes in his life and the way that all of the energy he had previously put into his career could be channelled into developing himself as a gay man in his 40s and to meet that goal of developing a permanent and monogamous relationship.
Does his story resonate with you?
My name is Alan Cox. I am An ICF-accredited Life Coach; CBT Practitioner; podcast host and multi-book author. And I am also a gay man in his 50s!
I specialise in guiding professional gay men who are tired of casual flings, vacuous hook-up apps and who feel that there is something 'wrong' with them because they are not in a committed relationship.
My clients are successful, self-aware men who crave that real love but who feel stuck - whether it's due to past, heartbreak, self-doubt or simply not knowing where to start.
Through my structured coaching process, I will help you gain clarity about yourself and also what you seek in a partner. We will break unhelpful thoughts and habits and you will develop the confidence and strategies to attract a lasting, monogamous relationship.
So, if you're ready to move from uncertainty to commitment then let's make it happen - together!
Alan
